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Why is my 11 year old so tired?


It’s common for preteens and teens to feel tired from time to time. However, if your 11-year-old seems to be constantly exhausted even after getting enough sleep, there could be an underlying cause. Here are some of the most common reasons an 11-year-old may be excessively tired and what you can do about it:

Not Getting Enough Sleep

One of the most obvious causes of daytime tiredness is not getting enough sleep at night. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, 11-year-olds need 9-12 hours of sleep per night. Without adequate sleep, your child may have difficulty staying awake and alert during the day. Consider your child’s bedtime and make sure they are getting to bed early enough to get sufficient shut-eye. Enforce a regular sleep schedule, even on weekends, to help your child’s body clock stay regulated. Limit screen time before bed as the blue light from devices can disrupt normal melatonin production and make it harder to fall asleep.

Sleep Disorders

Sometimes excessive tiredness is a sign of an underlying sleep disorder that is preventing quality rest at night. Common sleep disorders in preteens and teens include:

Insomnia

Difficulty falling or staying asleep despite having the time and opportunity to sleep. Insomnia can be caused by stress, anxiety, medications, or underlying medical issues.

Sleep apnea

A condition where breathing is disrupted briefly but repeatedly throughout the night, preventing deep sleep. Symptoms include snoring, gasping for air, and excessive daytime sleepiness. Sleep apnea is often caused by enlarged tonsils or adenoids blocking the airway.

Restless leg syndrome

An overwhelming urge to move the legs when lying down, often accompanied by uncomfortable sensations. This prevents restful sleep, leading to daytime exhaustion.

Delayed sleep phase disorder

The circadian rhythm or “body clock” is shifted later, making it difficult to fall asleep at an appropriate bedtime and wake up in the morning. Teens are especially prone to a delayed rhythm.

If you suspect your child has a sleep disorder, discuss it with their pediatrician. A sleep study or overnight oximetry test can help diagnose conditions like sleep apnea. Treatment may include removing enlarged tonsils/adenoids, CPAP therapy, improving sleep habits, or medication.

Inadequate Nutrition

Eating a diet low in essential nutrients can also cause tiredness. Make sure your 11-year-old is getting balanced meals and snacks full of:

Protein

Important for muscle growth, focus, and sustained energy. Good sources include lean meat, eggs, nuts, beans, dairy.

Healthy fats

Help nourish the brain and regulate hormones. Found in fatty fish, avocado, olive oil, nuts and seeds.

Complex carbs

Provide glucose to fuel the body and brain. Choose whole grains like oats, brown rice, quinoa over simple carbs.

Fruits and veggies

Packed with energizing vitamins and minerals like magnesium, potassium, vitamin C.

Iron

Carries oxygen to cells and prevents anemia, which causes fatigue. Found in red meat, spinach, lentils, fortified cereal.

B vitamins

Metabolize food into energy. Found in chicken, fish, eggs, leafy greens, dairy.

Without adequate nutrition, your child will struggle to meet their daily energy needs. Make sure they eat a balanced breakfast. Pack nutritious lunches and after school snacks. Limit sugar, caffeine and junk food which can cause energy crashes.

Growth Spurts

Growth spurts are periods when your child’s body rapidly increases in height and weight. These phases of accelerated growth require lots of energy, so an 11-year-old going through a growth spurt may feel wiped out as their body directs its resources towards growth. Make sure your child continues to eat nutrient-dense meals and snacks to fuel this development. The tiredness should pass once their growth rate evens out again.

Starting Puberty

The onset of puberty brings many changes that can contribute to feeling run down.

Hormone changes

Rising levels of estrogen and testosterone affect sleep quality, leading to daytime drowsiness. They also trigger growth spurts.

Body changes

Developing breasts, menstruation, body hair growth, oil production, and skin changes like acne can be uncomfortable and interfere with sleep.

Emotional changes

Mood swings, anxiety and fluctuating emotions can make it difficult for preteens to fall and stay asleep.

Be understanding during this transition period. Make sure your child keeps up with personal hygiene, eats nutritiously and exercises to help counteract the tiredness. Puberty-related exhaustion should dissipate in time.

Heavy Academic Workload

Middle school marks the beginning of increased academic demands. Your 11-year-old may be staying up late trying to keep up with lengthy homework assignments, projects, test preparation, reading and studying. Packed school days with few breaks can also be mentally and physically draining. Work with your child on time management skills like planning out assignments, taking study breaks, and avoiding distractions. Speak with teachers if homework seems excessive for your child’s abilities.

Extracurricular Activities

Jam-packed afterschool schedules filled with sports, music, clubs, and social obligations can leave preteens exhausted by day’s end. Overscheduling extracurriculars is a common issue for this age group. Evaluate your child’s activities and consider whether they are overcommitted. Cut back on nonessential obligations if needed to allow for downtime and rest.

Screen Time

Excessive television watching, gaming, social media, texting and Internet browsing can strain the eyes and overstimulate the brain, leaving 11-year-olds feeling drained. Set limits around entertainment technology and make sure your child takes regular breaks while using devices. Power down all screens at least one hour before bedtime. Remove screens from your child’s bedroom at night to avoid disrupted sleep from late night texting or YouTube.

Underlying Mental Health Issues

Sometimes chronic exhaustion is a symptom of an underlying mental health problem like:

Depression

Depression often causes lack of energy, difficulty sleeping, and feelings of tiredness. Preteens may also experience sadness, irritability, loss of interest in activities, or unexplained aches and pains.

Anxiety

Anxious preteens who worry frequently may struggle to fall asleep and wake from sleep feeling unrested. Anxiety can also manifest as physical exhaustion.

Stress

Too much pressure at school, home, or socially can leave 11-year-olds emotionally and physically drained. Stress taxes the immune system and disrupts sleep.

If you suspect a mental health issue, talk to your child’s pediatrician. Counseling and/or medication may help resolve mood issues contributing to fatigue.

Medical Conditions

Certain medical conditions can potentially cause daytime tiredness including:

Hypothyroidism

When the thyroid gland is underactive and produces too little metabolism-regulating hormone. Symptoms include fatigue, weight gain, feeling cold, constipation. Diagnosed with blood tests and treated with medication.

Anemia

A lack of healthy red blood cells causes fatigue, pale skin, dizziness, rapid heartbeat. Usually caused by iron deficiency and treated with supplements and dietary changes.

Diabetes

Excess blood sugar causes frequent urination leading to dehydration and sleep disruption. Other symptoms are increased thirst and appetite. Your pediatrician can test for diabetes.

Mononucleosis

This viral infection famously known as “mono” lasts 1-2 months and causes severe fatigue. Other symptoms are fever, sore throat, swollen glands. Bed rest and fluids help recovery.

If your child’s tiredness seems unremitting despite proper sleep, nutrition and exercise, take them to their pediatrician for a physical exam and screening tests to rule out any medical problems.

Tips for Less Tiredness

Here are some ways to help combat everyday tiredness in 11-year-olds and keep their energy up:

Enforce a regular bedtime and wake time

Consistency is key for quality sleep.

Limit naps

Napping may provide a quick boost but can make it harder to sleep at night.

Get moving daily

Regular exercise improves stamina and sleep.

Fuel up on nutritious foods

Avoid junk food energy highs and crashes.

Stay hydrated

Dehydration exacerbates fatigue. Offer water regularly.

Manage screen time

Avoid stimulation before bed. Take frequent viewing breaks.

Limit sugary drinks

Soda, sports drinks, juice contain lots of unneeded sugar and calories.

Check for anemia

Iron deficiency is common in adolescent girls and causes tiredness.

Get outdoors daily

Natural light and fresh air boost energy.

Add a multivitamin

Ensures adequate nutrition for energy.

When to Seek Medical Advice

Consult your pediatrician if your 11-year-old’s fatigue:

– Persists daily for two weeks or more
– Is not relieved by sufficient sleep and nutrition
– Is accompanied by other concerning symptoms like chest pain or palpitations
– Impacts their ability to focus or function at school

Unexplained tiredness can be a sign of an underlying health condition that needs medical attention. Your pediatrician can do a thorough evaluation and determine if there is a physical or mental cause that needs treatment.

Conclusion

In summary, there are many reasons an otherwise healthy 11-year-old may feel persistently tired including: insufficient sleep, sleep disorders, poor diet, growth spurts, puberty changes, heavy school workload, overscheduling activities, excessive screen time, mental health issues, and medical conditions. Make sure your child gets 9-12 hours of quality sleep per night. Provide nutritious meals and snacks. Limit nonessential obligations. Rule out any underlying physical or mental causes with your pediatrician. Ongoing exhaustion warrants medical investigation to uncover any issues requiring treatment. With proper rest and nutrition, an 11-year-old should have enough sustained energy to focus and flourish both at home and in school.