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What type of people do babies like?


Babies are highly social creatures who are drawn to faces, voices, and interactions right from birth. While babies have innate preferences for certain characteristics like higher-pitched voices and smiling faces, their social preferences are also shaped by early experiences and exposures. Understanding what appeals to babies can help parents, caregivers, and early childhood educators best meet infants’ social needs during a critical period of development.

The Sound of Voices

One of the first things newborns respond to is the human voice. Infants prefer higher-pitched, “sing-song” voices, known as “parentese.” The exaggerated vocal tones and rhythms of parentese get infants’ attention, convey affection, and aid language development. Studies show babies gaze longer at faces paired with parentese speech. They also suck harder on pacifiers to hear parentese versus lower-pitched adult speech.

Newborns can recognize their mother’s voice within weeks and prefer it over unfamiliar voices. A 2017 study found one-day-old infants showed stronger brain responses upon hearing their mom versus the voice of another woman. Familiar voices transmit comfort, care, and a sense of belonging. Hearing mom or dad stimulates infant brains and helps bonding.

Beyond pitch, the complexity of language also matters. Infants notice the difference between child-directed and adult-directed speech. Six-month-olds prefer to listen to complex, varied infant-directed speech. More complex vocalizations likely promote infants’ language learning.

The Power of Faces

Infants are captivated by the human face right from the start. Newborns’ gaze naturally focuses about 8-12 inches away – the perfect distance to see a caregiver’s face during breast or bottle feeding. Babies also prefer looking at facial patterns that resemble a face with two eyes, a nose, and a mouth.

By two months of age, infants show a preference for their mother’s face. In a 2018 study, infants gazed longer at photos of their own mother versus an unfamiliar woman. Recognizing mom’s face brings comfort and feelings of safety.

Babies also favor faces displaying positive emotions like joy and affection. Two-month-olds gaze longer at smiling versus neutral faces. The positive expressions that parents naturally make when interacting with infants help cement babies’ preference for happy faces.

Facial Attractiveness

The attractiveness of faces also influences babies’ social interest. Infants gaze longer at conventionally attractive faces versus less attractive faces. Symmetry, averageness, and sexually dimorphic facial features signify attractiveness across cultures. These facial qualities may indicate health and strong genes.

Newborns show a preference for attractive faces within days of birth. In a Chinese study, two-day-old infants looked longer at composite images of conventionally attractive Chinese female faces. This early preference suggests infants are biologically prepared to respond to facial beauty.

Gender and Race

Around 3-4 months of age, babies develop preferences for faces matching their primary caregivers in gender and race. Infants raised primarily by females show more interest in female faces at this age. Those raised by a female and male look equally at both genders. Racial preferences also emerge by 3 months towards faces of the primary caregiver’s race.

These social preferences likely occur due to imprinting on the first faces infants see during a sensitive period of development. Frequent early exposure to female and same-race faces shapes babies’ facial interests. Concerns exist that this imprinting could lead to later gender and racial biases if positive exposures are not provided.

Voices and Faces Together

From 2-5 months of age, babies pay special attention when voices and faces coincide. Infants look longer at speakers whose lip movements match their speech sounds versus mismatched speech and faces. Detecting this intersensory stimulation is thought to aid infants in developing integrated percepts of people.

Babies also prefer when emotional facial expressions and vocal tones align. Two-month-olds prefer happy faces paired with happy voices and angry faces with angry voices. Matching sights and sounds capture infants’ interest and help them learn about expressive behaviors.

Baby-Directed Interactions

Caring adults intuitively interact with infants using exaggerated facial expressions, higher-pitched voices, repetitive actions, and simplified language. This “baby talk” style highlights the social cues babies are primed to pay attention to. As a result, infants show heightened engagement during infant-directed interactions.

When adults use baby talk, infants show more alertness, better emotion regulation, and enhanced language learning. Enhanced brain activity also occurs in response to infant-directed speech. The extra stimulation of baby talk supports infants’ emerging social skills.

Caregiver Familiarity

While babies appreciate baby talk from most adults, they show an extra preference for interactions with familiar caregivers. Infants as young as two months look longer at familiar versus unfamiliar adults using infant-directed speech and gestures. Recognizing a primary caregiver’s social cues is rewarding for infants.

Babies also become attuned to their own parent’s patterns of interaction. Research shows infants detect subtle differences in the quality of motion and exaggeration of expressions between their own versus unfamiliar parents. Discerning these nuances helps infants identify their closest relationships.

Touch and Play

Loving touch from caregivers also draws infants’ attention and soothes babies during face-to-face interactions. Gentle stroking while talking helps keep babies calmly engaged. Infants even open their eyes wider when caregivers touch them on the face versus only hearing their voice.

Playful interactions like peek-a-boo fascinate babies by violating expectations. Watching adults reappear after briefly hiding their face creates feelings of surprise and enjoyment. The laughing and excitement of peek-a-boo keeps infants socially engaged.

Peer Interactions

While adults capture the majority of young infants’ social attention, babies also show interest in other babies. Newborns demonstrate imitative abilities by sticking out their tongues and opening their mouths in response to peers doing the same. Imitation indicates an early awareness of others’ actions.

Young infants also communicate through gazes, facial expressions, and vocalizations during face-to-face interactions with peers. Two babies placed together will spontaneously take turns displaying expressions and reciprocal vocal responses. Turn-taking demonstrates infants’ early abilities to partake in simple social exchanges.

Twin Studies

Identical and fraternal twins provide further insight into infants’ early social discrimination skills. Newborn twins show a preference for the face of their own twin versus their sibling’s twin. This suggests facial recognition abilities are present at birth to distinguish even highly similar individuals.

Twin studies also reveal possible innate empathy in infants. At 18 months of age, twins demonstrate emotional contagion by crying nearly 50% of the time when their co-twin is crying, versus only crying around 10% of the time otherwise. Being sensitive to a close sibling’s distress may come intuitively to infants.

Strangers and Unfamiliar Faces

While familiar faces put infants at ease, unfamiliar faces induce caution and wariness. Two-month-olds show heightened brain activity when viewing strangers’ faces, indicative of emotional arousal and attention. Babies also display stranger anxiety starting around 6-8 months of age by crying, turning away, or clinging when approached by an unfamiliar person.

Stranger wariness is an adaptive response to potential threats. Babies who demonstrate appropriate stranger anxiety at age 1 also tend to be more socially responsive to parents and show better emotion regulation abilities. Cautiousness around strangers reflects healthy social development.

However, research suggests babies have some ability to distinguish benevolent strangers from potentially threatening ones. In one study, infants observed videos of adults behaving nicely or aggressively toward a puppet. When later shown photos of the adults, babies demonstrated preferences for the nice actor. Discerning kindness in strangers is a useful social skill.

Factoring in Temperament

While human faces, voices, and interactions attract the majority of infants, individual differences in temperament impact social responsiveness. Fussy babies and those high in negative emotionality show less gazing at faces and muted reactions to emotional expressions. Meanwhile, very active babies may have trouble settling down enough to focus on social cues.

However, infants classified as having “easy” temperaments, marked by positive mood and regular patterns, demonstrate the highest levels of social engagement. Babies with easygoing temperaments gaze more at faces, better detect emotions, and show greatest preference for infant-directed speech – naturally rewarding social stimuli keeps their attention. Understanding infants’ temperaments can help parents meet babies at their level.

The Role of Early Social Experience

While babies are primed to pay attention to certain social characteristics, early life experiences further shape infants’ social development. Negative experiences like abuse or neglect can disrupt infants’ social functioning, while close relationships facilitate it. Oxytocin and dopamine released during warm caregiver interactions reward babies’ brains and reinforce social learning.

Conversely, lack of social stimulation early in life can have detrimental effects. Orphanage-reared infants often show delays in skills like gaze-following, emotion recognition, and social smiling due to insufficient caregiver interaction. But these abilities can improve when infants are placed in caring foster homes. Enriching babies’ social environments promotes healthy development.

Media Exposure

Even screens can impact babies’ social development. Research suggests excessive non-interactive media exposure before age 2 is linked with poorer language and cognitive skills. Associations also exist between high infant media use and later problems with peer relationships and emotional control. Passive screen time displaces needed social interactions.

However, video-chatting allows babies to benefit from meaningful social cues on screens. Infants as young as 3 months show ability to transfer learning about objects, faces, and emotions from video chats with caregivers to real life. When used interactively, baby-friendly technology can enhance social development rather than impede it.

The Developmental Trend

While babies enter the world primed for social input, their social abilities grow dramatically across the first years of life as brains mature and experience accumulates. Newborns reflexively gaze at faces, while 3-month-olds discriminate emotions in expressions. Nine-month-olds understand some basic social cues, and 1-year-olds participate in back-and-forth social exchanges.

Early social capacities lay the groundwork for more advanced abilities like empathy, humor, cooperation, and intimate relationships in childhood and beyond. Nurturing infants’ inborn social talents through warm, responsive caregiving optimizes development. The seeds of lifelong social functioning begin with having social needs met in infancy.

Conclusion

Despite limitations in vision, mobility, and cognition, newborns’ brains are specially tuned to make sense of the social world. Babies recognize and prefer characteristics of human faces, voices, and caring interactions that allow them to engage with caregivers right from birth. While inborn dispositions drive infants’ social capacities, experience rapidly shapes emerging social skills as babies develop. Meeting infants’ needs for loving relationships from the start allows remarkable social talents to blossom in the first years of life. Understanding what appeals most to babies gives parents, educators, and other caregivers power to positively influence this critical period of social development.