Kissing is an important part of intimacy and relationships. A kiss can say a lot about how someone feels about you. When you’re kissing someone new, it’s normal to wonder if they’re actually enjoying it or just being polite. Knowing whether he’s into your kisses or could take them or leave them can help you figure out if the relationship has potential to grow. Here are some signs that can help you determine if he’s really enjoying your kisses or not.
He reciprocates your kisses
One of the most obvious signs that a guy enjoys kissing you is that he kisses you back! If he’s returning your kisses, moving his lips against yours, and not pulling away, it shows he’s into it. One-sided kissing is usually a red flag that the other person isn’t that enthused. But make sure it’s genuine reciprocation and not just polite kissing back. Some other clues he’s enjoying kissing include holding you closer, caressing you, sighing or moaning softly.
He kisses you often
A man who enjoys your kisses will find excuses to kiss you as often as possible. He may give you a passionate kiss hello and goodbye each time you meet. He may plant kisses on you spontaneously throughout the day. He may initiate kissing sessions even when you’re not making out. The frequency with which he kisses you and initiates kisses shows how much he enjoys the act with you.
There’s passion, chemistry and urgency
Kisses where your partner seems invested, connected and attracted to you are a good sign. There’s likely to be passion, urgency, chemistry and the sense he’s been wanting to kiss you. Kisses that lack energy or enthusiasm could mean he’s kissing you out of habit or obligation. Kisses with genuine enjoyment are often fiery, intense and intimate rather than dull.
He compliments how you kiss
A guy who enjoys your kisses will express that verbally before, during or after kissing. He may make sounds of approval or say outright how much he likes your kisses or your technique. Compliments like “You’re an amazing kisser” or “I love kissing you” reinforce that he’s really into your kisses. Conversely, a lack of compliments could be a subtle sign he finds your kisses lacking in some way.
He gets aroused while kissing you
Since passionate kissing triggers arousal and leads to sex, physical signs of arousal are another indicator that a man enjoys kissing you. If he gets an erection or shows signs of sexual excitement from just kissing, it’s a definite sign your kisses entice him. Don’t expect this every single time, but notice if he often gets turned on from kissing you. If not, he may not be that into the kissing.
He finds creative ways to kiss you
Someone who enjoys kissing you will want to do it in many different ways, not just a quick peck on the lips. Does he give you intense French kisses? Kiss the back of your neck? Nibble your ear or kiss your forehead? The more effort he puts into creative, unexpected kisses, the more he savors your kisses.
His body language signals interest
The way he holds you and positions his body during kissing can also reveal his level of enjoyment. Signs he’s into it include holding your face in his hands, gently stroking your cheek, wrapping his arms around you, pressing his body close to you or cozying up with his legs entangled with yours. Kissing you on a couch and pulling you on top of him shows he wants to get close.
He kisses you at intimate moments
Kisses shared in intimate, private or vulnerable moments indicate emotional connection. If he kisses you after sex, while cuddling at night, when one of you experiences good news or during difficult times, it means he wants to kiss you regardless of the situation. His desire to kiss you at intimate moments, not just during passion, reveals deeper feelings.
He puts thought into his technique
Pay attention to your partner’s kissing technique. Are his kisses thoughtful, varying in speed and pressure? He may gently suck your lower lip or run his tongue along your lips before pressing his mouth to yours. Slow, sensual kisses mixed with passionate ones show effort. Sloppy kisses with bumped noses indicate he’s in a rush. Thoughtless technique can be a subtle sign of disinterest.
He gets lost in the moment
When your partner is fully engaged in kissing you, he’ll seem completely lost in the moment. He won’t be distracted by things happening around you or thinking about other topics. You’ll have his undivided attention. Being mentally present and focusing entirely on the sensual pleasure of kissing you demonstrates his enjoyment.
He touches you in affectionate ways
Your partner may caress your face, play with your hair or run his hands up and down your arms and back while kissing. Affectionate touching mixed with kissing indicates he’s savoring the sensual experience. It’s not overtly sexual but shows a desire for meaningful physical connection. The combination of light touches with passionate kisses is incredibly intimate.
He gets butterflies from your kisses
Some men admit getting fluttery butterflies in their stomach when they kiss someone they really like. It’s a sign of being excited yet nervous around you. So if he says he gets butterflies when he kisses you or acts giddy and keyed up, it means your kisses make him feel special. They have a powerful effect on him.
He seems very happy and peaceful after kissing
Have you noticed he seems content and peaceful after kissing or making out? His mood is brighter and more optimistic. This “kissing high” happens when he’s with someone he has feelings for. The happiness and oxytocin released from kissing you linger post-kiss, putting him in a overall better mindset.
He goes out of his way to kiss you
A man who travels a long distance or goes through hassle to be able to kiss you cares deeply about your kisses. If he drives an hour each way to see you or takes you on exotic trips just so he can lock lips with you, he doesn’t view your kisses as casual. The effort he puts in to continue kissing you proves how much he wants to keep kissing you.
He talks about your kisses later
After an intense makeout session, does he text you about how amazing it was or mention it again later? Bringing up your kisses and expressing how much he enjoyed them demonstrates he’s still thinking about the experience. Random comments like “I can’t stop thinking about our kisses” give you positive feedback.
He prioritizes kissing in your intimacy
Some men view kissing as a means to an end before moving on to sex. But when your partner spends lots of time on passionate kisses and doesn’t rush into other acts, it means he values kissing you for its own sake. Kissing you is a priority, not just a stepping stone. So pay attention to the role and duration of kissing to gauge his investment.
He kisses you even when you’re not “made up”
If a man enjoys kissing you, he’ll do it whether you just woke up, you’re lazing around the house in sweats, or you don’t have your makeup and hair done. A guy who’s happy to kiss you when you’re barefaced and casual shows he’s not just kissing you for superficial reasons. He’s drawn to you regardless of how done-up you are.
Conclusion
While kissing isn’t the only ingredient for a healthy relationship, it can reveal a lot about your chemistry and compatibility. Noticing the different ways your partner reacts to kissing you provides clues about his feelings. Signs he’s really into your kisses include eagerness, passion, undivided attention, thoughtfulness and creativity. Compliments, physical arousal, joy, affection and effort also indicate he’s excited to lock lips with you! Ultimately the happiness and enthusiasm you sense from his kisses will tell you if he can’t get enough.